If you are in the process of ending a relationship, be it intimate or platonic, it is important that things are done right. This way there will be no bad blood between you and your ex-friend or partner. Most of the time we perceive breakups to be ugly and petty. It doesn’t always have to be that way but if you really want to do it right you will have to take active measures for it. When breaking up, it is important that you think this decision through otherwise you will be left with a bunch of regrets. With that being said, following are some of the things you can do in order to be able to break up and process it better, check them out below.
Always Be Sure of Your Decision
Breaking up is definitely not a pleasant experience regardless of who is doing it. If you are the one who has decided to end a relationship, it is very important that you think it through. Make a concrete decision so that you aren’t left with any regrets afterwards. We’d highly recommend that you weigh out the pros and cons of it first. Quite literally make a list and write it down so you have a visual reminder of why you’re doing this. It will also be helpful to keep this list with you afterwards so you can remind yourself of why things had to be done this way. It will keep you grounded and also not distort your perception of the relationship you had with your ex-partner.
Most of the time relationships end badly because there is a lack of communication. We are all adults but somehow we almost always end up in a horrible situation because we aren’t able to communicate. So to prevent it from turning ugly, communicate everything in a calm and clear manner.